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A steady texting rhythm for busy weeks, five example texts that turn chat into a plan, and what to check w</description></item><item><title>Should You Confess Your Feelings Over Text? 3 Checks and 6 Examples</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/confess-feelings-over-text-examples</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/confess-feelings-over-text-examples</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Yes, you can confess over text. Write it at night, send it the next afternoon, keep it to two lines. Three checks, six example texts, and what to do i</description></item><item><title>My Ex Texted Me After 3 Months Asking for One Last Trip: What to Reply</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/ex-texted-me-one-last-trip-what-to-reply</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/ex-texted-me-one-last-trip-what-to-reply</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Your ex texted after months and wants one last trip? Three checks before you reply, five replies for how you feel, and five questions to settle first.</description></item><item><title>First Date Drinks: 4 Rules, What to Say, and a Safety Checklist</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/first-date-drinks-rules-what-to-say</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/first-date-drinks-rules-what-to-say</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>First date drinks work best as one drink with conversation as the main event. Four simple rules, lines to say at the bar, and a five-point safety chec</description></item><item><title>Where to Meet People to Date in Your 30s: 4 Ways Beyond Another Wedding</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/where-to-meet-people-to-date-in-your-30s</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/where-to-meet-people-to-date-in-your-30s</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Where to meet people to date in your 30s: pick one weekly activity, ask friends for one trait, talk at weddings, and open app chats with a question. O</description></item><item><title>How to Date When You're a Homebody: 3 Moves From Your Couch</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/how-to-date-when-youre-a-homebody</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/how-to-date-when-youre-a-homebody</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>Can't get a date as a homebody? The issue is usually access, not appeal. 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He</description></item><item><title>When to Text After a First Date: 5 Signs They Want a Second Date (and What to Say)</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/after-blind-date-when-to-text-en</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/after-blind-date-when-to-text-en</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>The date is over, you are on your way home, and the question hits: is it too soon to text? Short answer: if you liked them, send a short message the s</description></item><item><title>His Pic: Movie Star. In Person…? Dating App Catfish Webtoon</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/dating-app-profile-pic-catfish-webtoon-en</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/dating-app-profile-pic-catfish-webtoon-en</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>On swipe-first dating apps, everyone posts their best photo. Filters, angles and lighting can make a profile look very different from real life, and t</description></item><item><title>"AI replaced you~": why developers should learn AI agents now (webtoon)</title><link>https://blurry.link/blog/ai-layoff-developer-ai-agent-webtoon-en</link><guid>https://blurry.link/blog/ai-layoff-developer-ai-agent-webtoon-en</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description>A short webtoon about a developer called into a meeting and told, "With AI around, we don't need people who just code anymore." 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